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I would describe myself as a level-headed and clear thinking individual. I gave up on fairy tales a long time ago and believe that everything has a price even love. And then she walked into my life. It was subtle at first. I would see her at the bar me and my friends hang out at. Occasionally our paths would cross at a club or two, the coffee shop I'm addicted to, and today she had the audacity to walk into my place of employment.
We have never spoke, barely made contact, and hell I'm not really sure if she even notices me as much as I notice her, until today. As I walked her out to the elevator she placed her hand in mine, looked into my eyes, and kissed me on the cheek as if we had known each-other for years.
I can't explain how she made me feel in that one moment but I can't forget the feeling either.That one simple gesture has been messing with my mind without letting up and honestly, for once in my life, I am at a stand still. What do I do now? I mean maybe she is just friendly. Maybe I am reading more into her prolonged grasp of my hand your or innocent kiss on the cheek. Either case I'm stuck. I actually considered scoping out her file to get her number and that is way crazy for even me. Got any advice?
Listen a friend of mine told me recently that only I have to live my life. Keyword I took from that: LIVE. Sometimes we allow fear of rejection to stop us from making the first move. Heck sometimes we allow fear itself to stop us from living. Now first things first. Do not ever, ever, ever, ever, did I say EVER use a clients information for personal reasons, even if they tell you to. Obviously you will run into her again outside of work and this is where you approach her. Notice I didn't safe "IF". The reason for this is that life is too darn short to pussyfoot around with what if's and maybe's.
She has seen you and the exchange in front of the elevator was her way of telling you. You seem like a straight forward and serious type of person. Let down your her, loosen the tie, or slip off the loafers and go for it. What do you have to loose. I am sure that you didn't get at where you are today by not taking chances. If you let her slip away who knows you might be walking away from your future wife or at the very least a good friend.
Things happen for a reason. I no longer stop myself from following signs. We don't know what our future holds and ever path doesnt come with a set of directions. Live a little, dance a little, walk on the beach with your shoes off, take a walk in the rain, and just live.
And by the way, what you are feeling is a strong attraction. Do you think it is going to go away if you pretend it doesn't exist?
Keep me posted sweets and go ahead and walk into the unknown....
Besitos and all that jazz...