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Life,Sex & Relationships

Friday, 24 August 2012 00:00

The Art of Making Love

Written by

art love

 

Dear Sappho,

How is it that some women know exactly what to say and do to make you feel loved and supported? How does one learn to express affection, communicate with charm, and comport one’s self with grace concerning love. Is this something you can teach or is it an innate talent and gift from Venus? How can I elevate love to an art?

Friday, 17 August 2012 00:00

Lesbian Tones Of Flirting

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tones wave

 

Dear Sappho,

I’ve noticed that every time my girlfriend talks to one of her friends the tone of her voice changes. She sounds like she is flirting to me - but she denies that she is flirting or that she has any feelings like that for her friend. Do some lesbians change the tone of their voice when flirting? How can you tell?

Friday, 10 August 2012 20:00

Coming Out and First Love

Written by

looking-for-love

 

Dear Sappho,

I know I am a lesbian who is emotionally and sexually attracted to other women, the problem is I am still a virgin "in love" with my straight best friend. I don't know where to find a girl friend that I will feel as passionately about as I do about my friend. My friend knows how I feel but tells me that although she loves me, she doesn't feel the "same way about me" because she loves men. Do you have any advice for me?

Monday, 06 August 2012 16:35

Study Says Eyes Reveal Sexual Orientation

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rainbow-eye

 

All is in the eyes! A new report reveals that the sexual orientation of a person can be revealed by the eyes.

 

 

Friday, 03 August 2012 19:53

Falling in Love Again

Written by

falling in love

 

Dear Sappho,

I love falling in love and have fallen in love many times during my 37 years. I have been accused of being addicted to love, yet - I can find no higher purpose to serve. How many times does the average person fall in love during a lifetime?

Friday, 27 July 2012 21:12

Evolving from Homosapiens to Homonoeticus

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planet-earth

 

Dear Sappho,

It seems like the human race has devolved since your time on the planet. Heterosexuality was not compulsive and the arts flourished. Now we have global warming, mass violence and corporate greed destroying the fabric of our society. You didn’t have guns and now guns in the US kill 30,000 people every year. Please tell me how you see humanity surviving into the future. 

 

Friday, 20 July 2012 19:19

Your Brain In Love and Intimacy

Written by

Beautiful-Heart

 

Dear Sappho,

I know I am in love with another woman. It seems like every song is to her, every thought I have is of her, and I can’t stop these lovely feelings, nor do I want to. The problem is she does not express her feelings easily. I don’t know if she fears intimacy is incapable of intimacy or just doesn’t feel the same way I do. Do you have any insight on love and intimacy and the difference between them?

Tuesday, 17 July 2012 03:34

Exploring Gender: Another Perspective on Dating

Written by

cael

 

At the end of last month, I was in a coffee shop with my girlfriend, Brittany, working on my schedule of articles for this month, trying to come up with ideas which would still be relevant within the next few weeks, and then I remembered an idea from a couple of weeks before. I turned to her and asked, “Will you write a guest post, talking about what it’s like for you?” Which seems like a very vague question, but we have a constant dialogue about gender and are constantly asking each other questions, I about her experience in dating a transman and she about all facets of my knowledge of gender.

Friday, 06 July 2012 14:34

I Dedicate this Song to You

Written by

music-love
Dear Sappho,

I recently amused myself by compiling a play list of all the love songs I have ever had with all of my serious lovers. I then asked my girlfriend, not for the first time, what her song with her ex was. She told me again, she couldn’t remember or doesn’t know. I was flabbergasted, how could she not know “their” song after more than 10 years of living together.  Either she’s very discrete, diplomatic or completely unsentimental. I have even had songs for women I have just had a crush on. What criteria do you use for picking a love song and how come everyone doesn’t have one?
 
Thursday, 21 June 2012 22:13

Emotional Fulfillment

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maslows hierarchy of needs

 

Dear Sappho,

In spite of being in a “successful” relationship and having a few really great friends, I can’t get over the fact that something seems lacking in my life. My partner and I are happy going our separate ways and returning to home base. We have love, acceptance and mutual interactions and support, but something emotional is missing and I’m not sure what it is. We love each other even more than ever. Yet, I am an emotionally unfulfilled woman. What are the expectations for emotional fulfillment?

Lacking Fulfillment

Friday, 15 June 2012 00:00

Gay Pride, Self-Esteem & Jealousy

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pride

 

Dear Sappho,

I always look forward to Gay Pride Month because of all the parades, parties and gay events that promote pride and acceptance. However, my girlfriend seems to dread them and says it’s because she is jealous of all the beautiful lesbians who make her feel less than beautiful. I am a quasi-gay activist and find it difficult to understand why she fails to get the celebration.

Sunday, 10 June 2012 00:00

Lesbian Dealmakers & Deal-Breakers

Written by

like-and-unlike

 

Dearest Sappho,

Do you have a handy list of lesbian deal breakers that could guide some decision making for women who are temporarily blinded by love?

Can’t see the Future

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