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Life,Sex & Relationships

Friday, 25 November 2011 20:12

Sex is Not Love

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Dear Sappho,

I am a single lesbian looking for true love. I live in Northern California and have no problem hooking up with other lesbians. There is a vibrant community here and also lots of online dating opportunities. The problem is finding a woman that makes my heart sing and my spirit soar.

I assumed that with so many choices I would have several heartthrobs - but so far my dates have been lukewarm without any life changers. I want deep fulfilling lasting passion and love. Where can I find it, if not here? Sex is not enough.

Friday, 28 October 2011 17:09

Bisexuals are Not Gay

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Dear Sappho,

I’m rather tired of being called gay when I am bi. Seems society thinks all bi men are gay and all lesbians are bi which is so stupid. Bisexuals are not lesbians. Sometimes lesbians become bisexuals. I like to keep them guessing.


Tuesday, 25 October 2011 22:58

The Straight Women Fantasize About Lesbian Sex

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Did you know that over 50% of straight women fantasize about our sex relationships? Forget the unsatisfied aspect, too easy, and focus on the relationship between two women.

Friday, 21 October 2011 17:23

Lesbians Are Not Bisexuals

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Dear Sappho,

I have a super crush on a nurse I work with. I know she s a lesbian and up until now I have lived my life as a want to be bisexual. Although most of my relationships have been with men, I find myself constantly fantasizing about women. Now all of those women have become the face and embodiment of this one particular woman that I can’t stop thinking about, and believe me, I have tried.

I want to connect with her and I am curious if lesbians would sleep with or could come to love a bisexual woman? Is there some sort of political sexual protocol or unspoken code of honor about lesbians sleeping with bisexual women?


Friday, 14 October 2011 23:11

Keeping Her Sexual Chakras Open

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Dear Sappho,

I have a sexually adventurous girlfriend. Every time we make love she wants to up the ante and I’m afraid I will eventually run out of steam or tricks to whet her appetite. Do you know any sexual techniques that outlast the test of time and adventure?

Waning but Willing

unrequited loveDear Sappho,

Have you ever had to deal with unrequited love? If so, how does one manage to continue loving in the face of adversity, rejection or hopelessness. When I first fell in love with this spectacular woman I didn’t realize every other woman in town had their eye on her as well. It breaks my heart that we will never be partners or lovers, but I refuse to not let myself love her. How does a passionate woman like me or a poet like you come to terms with unrequited love?

Unrequited Lover

Wednesday, 21 September 2011 23:11

Evan Rachel Wood Talks About Her First Relationship With A Woman

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Evan Rachel Wood is this month the cover of the American edition of Marie-Claire. In the interview, she talks about her new androgyne look, her sexuality and her first relationship with a woman.

Friday, 09 September 2011 23:37

Freedom vs Equality

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As most of you know, I am a lesbian, at least that is the label that I claim and how I live my life. I do not attempt to hide who or what I am, I live my life openly and I really don't care if you approve of my lifestyle or not. Who I love or how I love them is really none of your business, however our society seems to think otherwise. That is kind of the point I want to make. I am not an activist, while I do voice my opinions on LGBT issues, I am not out fighting any battles.

Friday, 09 September 2011 17:37

Even Alice B. Toklas Had Trouble

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Dear Sappho,

Even Alice B. Toklas had trouble with Gertrude Stein’s relatives. Although Gertrude Stein clearly left all of her possessions to Alice in a will that stated if necessary all art could be sold for Alice’s upkeep, Stein’s relatives seized the valuable  art collection and failed to provide timely remittances for Alice to buy food or pay rent. There are about 1,049 federal laws that benefit legally married couples that are not granted to civil unions or gay marriage. How safe are your family’s assets?

Please inform your readers how they can legally protect their family's assets. 

Friday, 02 September 2011 17:04

Emotionally Unfulfilled

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Dear Sappho

I’m not sure if I should follow my heart or head on this one. I have been seeing a woman for about 6 months. We have great chemistry, hot sex and have a lot of fun and laughs together. My friends tell me she’s “The One” and I think so too. Recently she asked me to live with her. She was forced to lose her wonderful house after a split up from a long relationship. I would love to live with her, actually more than anything in the world. The problem is; she has never told me she loved me.

I have never been in a love relationship this long without both of us saying we loved each other, or more usually that we are in love with other. I’ve learned not to be mushy or needy with her. I want to take a chance and live with her but I am afraid of taking this kind of a risk with someone who is not emotionally available. What would you do?


Thursday, 25 August 2011 15:44

Requirements for Long Term Lesbian Relationships

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Dear Sappho,

What do you think is the most important quality in a long-term lesbian relationship?

Love, sex, acceptance, mutual goals & visions and compatibly are very important but so is reliability, and trust. First I followed my heart then my head and now my gut. Lesbian relationships are different from straight relationships. I’m asking you as the High Priestess Lesbian, what is the best requirement for long-term happiness?

Tuesday, 23 August 2011 23:56

Chely Wright Married Lauren Blitzer

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Chely Wright, known country singer in United-States and openly lesbian, married Lauren Blitzer this weekend.


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